There are many ways a bride and groom can switch things up to create a unique wedding ceremony and reception. It starts with just that, some brides and grooms do not follow the traditional route. Here is what we mean!
What is a normal American wedding?:
Starting out the wedding planning process, as wedding planners, we cannot assume the desires. This applies to the very core of the occasion, the structure. The structure of a traditional American wedding means something very different than what that means for couples today.
Because the USA is such a melting pot, there is not one single way an American wedding is expected to flow. Often times, multiple cultures are considered when rounding out the entirety of the wedding festivities. Sometimes, the events in the year leading up to the nuptials indulges more than ten occasions to please every grandparent and future in-law.
This is totally fine, but as wedding planners, BobbyMark’s is here to guide the desires of the lovely couple. There is not a right and wrong way in this industry, and that is what makes this professional so enjoyable. We are here to “put out fires” and create real-life dreams. What more could we ask for?
To begin, couples in the Untied States often wait around thirteen months after engagement to get married. This is a good time for emotions and mental planning. However, this is not always realistic.
Depending on where you live and where the festivities will be held, this may just not cut it. This is especially the case for couples desiring to stay on a budget. For big city weddings, this is most likely out of reach.
Consider waiting around three weeks to a month to begin the wedding planning. This allows the lovebirds to revel in the excitement. It is the perfect amount of time to bask in the splendor without losing momentum and drive.
Let’s be honest, wedding planning is not usually stress free. Obviously, we recommend meeting with our wedding planner, Mark. Bobby does our trendy, traditional, and extraordinary floral design. These two professionals are key in reducing wedding planning stress.
How to go about wedding planning on an extreme budget:
If you are doing everything DIY, consider a Day Of Coordinator, also called wedding day or event coordinator. This individual is only there for you a month leading up to the wedding. Some coordinators only meet the couple an hour before the “I do” moment.
A great day-of coordinator will meet with the brides and grooms at least one month before the big day. Next, the rehearsal will be coordinated by the day of coordinator. Lastly, he or she will arrive at least one hour before the ceremony. If the coordinator offers a package in which they are present for the event’s entirety, then that individual should arrive before anyone else as long as this is possible with the venue.
Speak with Bobby about floral design. Everyone in this industry understands florals are no small cost, but they are also so important for such an occasion. In the case you cannot afford a floral designer, or wedding florist, toss the idea around of just ordering the bridal bouquet and boutonniere from a floral designer.
These are the two most captured floral details of the entire event. If you have a little more in your budget, the wedding arch is a show stopper. A wedding arch upgrades your ceremony and can be used later in the reception as well.
Table arrangements are more for creating a specific vibe. Decor can be rented and played around with to achieve your dream wedding. Remember, the groom’s boutonniere, bridal bouquet, and wedding arch are usually the three most photographed and valuable floral details to a bride or groom.
Wedding planning in Asheville:
As we are just diving into this series, we hope to share the importance of making your wedding perfect for you. This day is not to please your mother, friends, or even your fiancé. This big day should please both finances! We hope to be the ones that can make this happen.
Contact BobbyMark’s today for a marvelous wedding planning experience.
Staff Writer
